Dear Future Wife,
I’m telling you why I have decided to wait on having sex until we get married. I have a couple reasons why.
Sex is to be enjoyed only with the person I marry. By waiting, I am showing self-control, and respect for my future wife. Sex is better in a secure loving relationship, like marriage. I don’t want sex to lose its meaning and value to me.
Having one STI is having one STI too many.
I don’t want the guilt, memories and comparisons! I want my first experience to be a good one w/o the fear of being rejected. I want to know you will be there for me tomorrow!
Sex could become the central focus of the relationship, like an addiction. Then it would no longer be a meaningful relationship. I’m not emotionally ready for that intense of a relationship.
Your Future Husband
Life is very hard right now, especially when you are a teenager. First of all, you have to choose friends who respect your decisions about how you live your life, so they won’t keep leading you down to the wrong things. Sometimes when you hang out with your friends, some of them might think that to be a real man you’ve got to have sex. This is wrong. If you are a real man, you can control yourself.
It might be difficult when you are in a relationship, but you still have no excuse if you decide not to wait. Hanging out with that girl in a healthy place is the one thing you have to work on. Stay away from bedrooms, just stay in public places like restauants or the movies. And stay away from alcohol and drugs so you can think clearly….
Trust me: If anyone puts pressure on you, put it back on them. Sex is to be enjoyed in marriage only.
To my Future Husband,
All my life I’ve been thinking of you and how our lives would be together. And what you’d say when you ask to marry me. The ring was not the think that made me say yes. It was your heart. All the time we were together you showed abstinence and never made bad choices to leave me and move on without me. I want to thank you for waiting for me and saving sex for marriage. Now we can have a safe and healthy marriage. Then the children we’ll soon have will have a great, sweet, and caring father to wake up to every morning.
Thanks for waiting with me.
I luv u